If your husband is the one who wants the divorce, you should NEVER beg or plead to get him to return. Begging or pleading will show weakness and cause you to feel humiliated when he lets you know he’s  not interested.

When your marriage is in crisis, don’t show him that you’re panicking. Don’t show desperation. You’re giving away any bargaining power you may have. Don’t speak to your husband until you are “calm, cool and collected” and are in control of your feelings.  Collect yourself and gather your thoughts before doing or saying anything you may later regret.

You may even realize that he’s doing you a favor, and you weren’t happy in your marriage either.