Can you ever forgive infidelity? And, can you ever recover from infidelity? It is very difficult to forgive (and forget) someone when they have been unfaithful.  The first thing you have to think about and ask yourself  is—do you really want to—or is this the perfect excuse to end or get out of a bad relationship or marriage?

The next thing to think about is—was this a spur-of-the moment/one-night affair—one-night mistake—or was this a long-term relationship? Was this the first time you were aware that this has happened—or has this happened before? If this was a spur-of-the moment mistake—and the only time it has happened—then you should consider trying to mend your relationship. Yes, you have been betrayed, and it will take time to rebuild the trust—but if you really love your partner, than it will be worth the effort. If this has happened before or if it was a long-term affair, then there is definitely something wrong with your relationship or marriage.

You should consider going to a marriage counselor or someone who is neutral to talk to.  It is possible to regain trust in someone after they have betrayed you (even once), but it is usually very difficult. It will take time and a lot of work and commitment. Some relationships can never be repaired. There will always be that doubt and suspicion.

 

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