If you are a woman, flirting definitely works when you want something from someone—because feminine charm works as an advantage. When you smile, look at the person, lean forward and even touch the person’s arm, you will usually get what you want from that person—as opposed to being polite, serious and direct. Flirting can be empowering.

Whatever sex you are, here are some tips on flirting that work:

1. The best way to break the ice with someone is to smile, say “hi” and ask a question that is easy to respond to. Like, what song is playing, or who is singing that song, for example.

2. Find out something they are interested in and talk about that. An example is talking about their dog.

3. Keep eye contact most of the time to let them know you are listening to them.

4.  Always be happy and positive. Only talk about things that are positive.

5.  Make them feel like they are really interesting and special.

Flirting can be fun!