Rich Men

On September 16, 2011, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce War Stories, by Leslye
"I'd rather be a rich man's darling than a poor man's slave"  goes the old vaudeville ditty.  Rich men are a breed unto themselves.  They can be selfish, arrogant and domineering toward their woman (or women).  Too many of them feel the need to conquer and control, and once they have succeeded, they are often [...]

Domestic Violence

On August 12, 2011, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce War Stories, by leslye
Too often society blames victims of domestic violence for not leaving, rather than holding the abusers responsible.  The reality is that financial dependency, concern for the children, and the fear of being pursued or even killed, can make the idea of escape seem impossible. No one deserves to be abused. Everyone should have someone to [...]

Deadbeat Husband

On July 10, 2011, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce War Stories, by leslye
On February 9, 2011 Congressman Steve Cohen from Tennessee reintroduced Jane's Law, a bipartisan measure that was crafted to close a legal loophole that enables people to avoid paying court-orderd property distributions by crossing state lines. The measure was named after Jane Maharam, who has been fighting since 1983 to force her ex-husband to return her [...]

Digital Flirting

On June 17, 2011, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce War Stories, Marriage, Sex, by leslye
Technology has created new rules for romance—which may lead to the path of infidelity.  Digital flirting is easy to do and easier to get caught!  Online flirtations and provocative photos are becoming the norm among some adults. The social networks—Facebook, Twitter and Skype video chats make it easy to flirt with strangers and engage in sexual fantasy without (technically) breaking [...]

Is Your Lawyer’s Bill Too High?

HALT has just released its latest Citizens Legal Guide, Is Your Lawyer's Bill Too High? How to Avoid (and Resolve) Fee Disputes. www.halt.org  Halt's collection of self-help law articles is bigger thanks to a new collaboration with Nolo.

The Maritial Bed

On January 20, 2011, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce War Stories, Marriage, Sex, by leslye
Certain things in a marriage should be sacred—like the marital bed.  Your home should be off-limits when a person is having an affair.  Having an affair is bad enough, but using your marital bed or even bringing the person to your home is beyond disgusting.

Abusive Husband

On March 22, 2010, in Blog, Divorce War Stories, by leslye
Some husbands are physically and emotionally abusive.  Usually if he is physically abusive, he will be emotionally abusive also—because he is a bully.  There is never an excuse for this!  Sometimes a husband can just be emotionally abusive.  He will enjoy demeaning you and putting you down, very often in front of your friends or [...]

Don’t Be In Denial

On January 26, 2010, in Blog, Divorce War Stories, by leslye
When your husband says he must work late every night for months -- an affair is likely.  What your mind blots out, your heart knows -- and so does everyone else.  In other words, when you're in denial, you're only kidding yourself.  Take off the blinders.