Borrowing Money

Borrowing money from friends or family is a mistake.  If you can’t pay back the money they have loaned you,  you could ruin your relationship with them. If you have no other choice but to ask a friend or relative for a loan, make sure the loan doesn’t put a hardship on them. If the loan is for over $10,000, the […]

Annulment vs. Divorce

What is the difference between an annulment and a divorce?  An annulment is a legal process that declares your marriage null and void as if it never existed.  With divorce, you had a marriage, but with an annulment the law declares you never had a marriage.

Why Men Cheat

On July 21, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

When someone asked Sir Edmund Hillary why he wanted to climb Mount Everest, he answered, “Because it’s there.” Men cheat “because it’s there!”  Sexual opportunities are everywhere—and they don’t have to look hard to find them!

“The Divorce Survival Guide for Women”

Do you feel like your marriage is falling apart? Don’t face divorce alone. Read “The Divorce Survival Guide for Women” — The definitive source of divorce advice for women. You must read this before you even think about divorcing your husband. This is your battle plan. www.preparefordivorce.com

Why Men Cheat

On July 18, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

Every so often there is an article making excuses for why men cheat, particularly middle-aged men.  While there are a myriad reasons why men cheat, a recent article blamed it on testosterone or lack of it.  Suppressed testosterone levels in middle-aged men is associated with depression, heart attacks, dementia and higher overall mortality rates.   One of […]

Thank You

When was the last time you wrote a “thank you” note—a handwritten thank you note—not an email?  Sending a handwritten thank you note can be as self-interested as it is polite. Is there any other reason to send a carefully worded thank you letter to someone who has just interviewed you for a job?  According […]

No-Fault Divorce

No-Fault divorce is expected to become New York law as early as next week (July 2010).  The good news is that it will make divorce less acrimonious.  The bad news is that it will enable older men with money to throw their wife away like a dead cat when they get tired of her. A […]

New York’s Divorce Liberation

New York is finally going to change to No-Fault Divorce.  It is the last state to do so, while every other state in the union moved to a no-fault divorce system at least a quarter of a century ago.