Postnuptial

Prenups are essential in every marriage.  But if you are given a postnuptial to sign—read it carefully, have a divorce attorney read it—but you should NEVER sign a postnuptial!  Even if your spouse gives you a “sign it or else” ultimatum—don’t sign it!  You will rue the day you did! It’s better to end the marriage then (if […]

No-Fault Divorce

No-Fault divorce is expected to become New York law as early as next week (July 2010).  The good news is that it will make divorce less acrimonious.  The bad news is that it will enable older men with money to throw their wife away like a dead cat when they get tired of her. A […]

Abusive Husband

On March 22, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce War Stories, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

Some husbands are physically and emotionally abusive.  Usually if he is physically abusive, he will be emotionally abusive also—because he is a bully.  There is never an excuse for this! Sometimes a husband can just be emotionally abusive.  He will enjoy demeaning you and putting you down, very often in front of your friends or […]

Don’t Be In Denial

When your husband says he must work late every night— for months—an affair is likely.  What your mind blots out, your heart knows—and so does everyone else. In other words, when you’re in denial, you’re only kidding yourself.  Take off the blinders. You must do everything you can to protect yourself. Buy “The Divorce Survival […]

Book About Divorce

A funny book about divorce (yes, it’s possible) is Heartburn by Nora Ephron, author of  Sleepless in Seattle and When Harry Met Sally.

Mobile Tracking Service

On January 14, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce War Stories, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

I just read about a mobile tracking service that allows users to monitor someone’s location using the G.P.S. software on their cellphones. But you can also pay for a service to use a fake location as a decoy so a person doesn’t know where you are.

Don’t Let A Judge Decide For You

The minute you make the decision to go to court and have a judge make the decisions in your divorce, you give up nearly all your control over the divorce process. If you want to keep your money instead of giving it to a divorce attorney, and if you want to maintain control over your […]

Divorce Is War

Divorce is War! A war you MUST fight to preserve your quality of life and ensure your financial security. My eBook “The Divorce Survival Guide for Women” is your battle plan: www.preparefordivorce.com You’ll be amazed at what you will learn from my eBook.