These are the guys you should forget about:

—Rebound Guy: He’s always comparing you with his ex. Avoid him until he’s healed;

—Disappearing Guy: If he always has excuses like “work’s really busy”—there is usually something else going on. The giveaway is erratic contact;

—Slick Guy: If his life looks like a magazine spread (sports car, high-tech stuff) steer clear—he’s hiding his insecurities;

—Rude Guy:  Always checking his blackberry, oogling other women when you’re with him. Tell him to get lost;

—Grabby Guy: If his hands are all over you and he’s making sexual innuendos—when you hardly know him. Get rid of him;

—Your ex: The fear of being single forever can make going back to an ex seem like a good idea. You shouldn’t go backward in life.  Move forward. Don’t waste your time a second time. You deserve better!