The best way to work with your attorney is to empower yourself by understanding the divorce process in your state.  Don’t ever assume that your attorney will take care of everything.  Not only are you the boss when you hire an attorney, but you are the one who has the most to gain or lose.  No one cares more or knows more about your case than you do.  It’s your money and your life, so manage your attorney accordingly. Do your research. “The Divorce Survival Guide for Women”  is chock-full of information, advice and strategies www.preparefordivorce.com