There is an old expression—”Don’t shit where you eat.” Whenever you date someone at work, you’re bringing in so many complex issues into the dynamic. It’s not only the two of you but all the other relationships that are affected by the romance.  It doesn’t take long for everyone to know about it. It can interfere with the functioning of the workplace and create problems.

Yes, sometimes dating someone in your office works—but most of the time it ends up being a disaster. You can be fired; you can be denied a promotion; and you can be transferred or reassigned. You won’t have a “leg to stand on” if that happens.  So think twice before you get involved in a romantic relationship with someone at work.