Divorce Celebration

When we get married we have a ceremony and celebration—a wedding.  So why not have a ceremony and celebration to untie the knot and bonds of a marriage? A ceremony to release you from the vows and promises you made. A ceremony can be personal and spiritual to help the couple and their families move past […]

Prepare For Divorce

Every woman should prepare for divorce while they are happily married. This may sound cynical, but if a divorce doesn’t happen to you and you live happily ever after, then you have lost nothing. But if life throws you a curve ball and a divorce does happen to you, it will have been the most important thing […]

Jealousy

On May 2, 2012, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, by Leslye

Jealousy comes in different forms, and there are various degrees of jealousy.  Just like aggression and paranoia, jealousy can take on various degrees of severity. Some people let their jealousy become all-consuming and create a permanent wedge between themselves and their partner. It can destroy a relationship. Usually jealousy is caused by one’s own issues with self-confidence and […]

Web & Sex

On April 25, 2012, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by Leslye

Forty percent of women say that social-networking media, like Facebook and text-messaging, are causing them to have sex sooner with someone than they would have in the past, according to a poll by Men’s Fitness and Shape magazines. It gives the false impression that you’ve actually been together longer, so it’s okay to have sex […]

Divorce Mistakes

On April 9, 2012, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, by Leslye

Women are particularly vulnerable during a divorce. Here are some things that women should avoid doing during a divorce: 1. Using Facebook or any social media sites:  Close your accounts until your divorce is finalized. Anything you say on them can be used against you! 2. Using Twitter: Do not tweet during your divorce. Anything you […]

Equitable Alimony

On April 6, 2012, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce/Financial, Prepare for Divorce, by Leslye

In an age of dual incomes, alimony payers want states to update divorce laws. Traditionally, alimony or maintenance was designed to prevent divorced women who did not work and were less educated from falling into poverty.  In today’s world a majority of women work and nearly a third have college degrees. But, even today, divorce is […]

Tricky Relationship

Starting a relationship with someone going through the divorce process can be very difficult.  Usually a man who is separated or getting a divorce is looking for some sort of fulfillment from a new relationship—but that rarely lasts once the divorce is finalized. A lot of things play into the equation. Did she initiate the divorce […]

Eliminating Divorce Attorneys

On March 24, 2012, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Lawyers & Legal Matters, Prepare for Divorce, by Leslye

While it is important that you hire the best divorce attorney for yourself, it is also important that your soon-to-be ex not be able to hire either the best divorce attorney or a pitbull,  before you have a chance to. This is going to cost you some money, but it will be money well-spent. Find out who the top five attorneys […]