Safe Sex

On October 12, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Leslye's Quotes and Notes, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

According to a recent survey in 2010 at Indiana University, financed by Church & Dwight, the maker of Trojan condoms, U.S. teenagers are not as reckless as some might think when it comes to sex, and they are much more likely to use condoms than people older than 40. The survey was the most comprehensive look […]

Why Men Cheat

On July 21, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

When someone asked Sir Edmund Hillary why he wanted to climb Mount Everest, he answered, “Because it’s there.” Men cheat “because it’s there!”  Sexual opportunities are everywhere—and they don’t have to look hard to find them!

Why Men Cheat

On July 18, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

Every so often there is an article making excuses for why men cheat, particularly middle-aged men.  While there are a myriad reasons why men cheat, a recent article blamed it on testosterone or lack of it.  Suppressed testosterone levels in middle-aged men is associated with depression, heart attacks, dementia and higher overall mortality rates.   One of […]

The Science of a Happy Marriage

Scientists have studied everything from the biological factors that seem to influence marital stability to a person’s psychological response after flirting with a stranger.  Their findings suggest that while some people may be naturally more resistant to temptation, men and women can also train themselves to protect their relationship. Partners cheat due to their own […]

Married Women and Sex

On May 22, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Marriage, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

A recent survey found that 63% of married women would rather catch an extra hour of sleep, watch a movie or read a book than have sex with their spouses.  One problem may be familiarity.  But 32% are extremely happy or very happy with their sex lives.

Sex After 40

Women enjoy sex more after 40 because sex becomes more physical for women after 40.    Sex can be  purely physical rather than emotional.  It’s easier to separate love and sex. On the other hand, older men have sex for emotional reasons.   Sexually, a woman in her 40’s has more in common with a man in his 20’s than a […]

Tiger Knew All The Tricks

On December 12, 2009, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce Gossip, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

Tiger Woods had a carefully crafted game plan to keep his wife in the dark about his multiple mistresses.  His MO included: —Having his friends act a wing men when he spotted a likely score. —Repeatedly changing his cell phone record to keep his wife Elin from following his tracks. —Booking hotel rooms in the […]

What Your Pet Can Teach You

In Parade on January 11, 2009 in an article by Cesar Millan,The Dog Whisperer, he wrote “What Your Pet Can Teach You”: 1. Live in the moment. 2. Nurture a balanced life. 3. Trust your instincts. 4. Be direct and consistent in your communication. 5. Learn to listen. 6. Don’t hold grudges. 7. Live with […]