How To Deal With A Bad Judge

Judges are the weakest link in our system of justice, and they are also the most protected.  —Alan Dershowitz Unfortunately, it is very difficult to deal with a bad judge.  Lawyers have no latitude with the judge that may be the judge in their/your case.  Some important points to know: Most experienced judges have seen and heard it […]

Your Attorney

The best way to work with your attorney is to empower yourself by understanding the divorce process in your state.  Don’t ever assume that your attorney will take care of everything.  Not only are you the boss when you hire an attorney, but you are the one who has the most to gain or lose.  […]

Grey Divorce

Grey divorce is a growing trend.  Seniors are now realizing that here is no reason to stay in a long, bad marriage.  People live longer today, and the reality is that you might as well enjoy every minute of the time you have! Older men seldom ask for a divorce unless they have a potential replacement.  On […]

Why Men Cheat

On July 18, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

Every so often there is an article making excuses for why men cheat, particularly middle-aged men.  While there are a myriad reasons why men cheat, a recent article blamed it on testosterone or lack of it.  Suppressed testosterone levels in middle-aged men is associated with depression, heart attacks, dementia and higher overall mortality rates.   One of […]

Divorce Advice

On June 24, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

The definitive source of information on divorce is my eBook “The Divorce Survival Guide for Women” @www.preparefordivorce.com. It is chock-full of divorce advice, divorce  information, and divorce strategies for everyone—even if a divorce isn’t in the cards for them!

Preparing For Divorce

You will never be fully prepared for a divorce, but here are some things to think about: 1. Make plans for living arrangements; 2. Separate your finances; 3. Decide on child custody; 4. Decide on the division of assets. My eBook The Divorce Survival Guide for Women @www.preparefordivorce.com is very important in preparing for divorce.

Legal Separation or Divorce

On February 4, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

Unlike a divorce, a legal separation does not put an end to your marriage.  The same issues addressed during the divorce process are also addressed in a legal separation agreement.  You remain legally married while choosing to live separately.  A legal separation can protect your interests until you decide to file for divorce. Your separation agreement sets […]

After A Divorce

On February 1, 2010, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

After a divorce, women experience less stress and are better adjusted than men. Some of the reasons for this are: 1.  Women are more likely to be aware  that  marital problems exist and are relieved when the pressure of the problems are gone; 2.   Women are more likely than men to get emotional support; […]