Men You Shouldn’t Date

These are the guys you should forget about: —Rebound Guy: He’s always comparing you with his ex. Avoid him until he’s healed; —Disappearing Guy: If he always has excuses like “work’s really busy”—there is usually something else going on. The giveaway is erratic contact; —Slick Guy: If his life looks like a magazine spread (sports […]

The Rules

On February 13, 2011, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

Even though it’s time to update The Rules, it seems that the more things change, the more they stay the same.  Because of Facebook, other social media, and texting, everyone is an open book.  You have to be very careful what you put out there.  And…don’t let yourself get into a long online relationship.  It’s going […]

Facebook, Your Marriage and Your Divorce

“Facebook Poses a Danger to Your Marriage and Your Divorce—Facebook and other social media sites have been blamed for as much as one fifth of the divorces that have taken place in the past few years.”              http://www.huffingtonpost.com/divorce/

Cougars

On October 29, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Leslye's Quotes and Notes, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

Results of a “cougar” dating survey on Facebook:  73% of women don’t mind being called a cougar.  61% of men have dated older women.  27% said they have dated women 10-20 years older than them. 51% of men said they would date an older woman because she may expect less than a marriage-hungry younger woman.

Divorce, Facebook and Twitter

Some people are addicted to sharing their inter most thoughts and feelings with strangers.  The truth is that most people don’t think before posting on Facebook and Twitter that what they have just posted is reaching massive numbers of people and is being immortalized in cyberspace forever. Be careful what you write.  It may come back to haunt […]

Divorce and Facebook

On February 27, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

People are cheating on their spouses using Facebook—and divorce lawyers are using the scene of the crime as evidence.  Divorce lawyers have seen a massive spike in the use of social-networking information as evidence of infidelity, and more. If you are anticipating a divorce, you should be prudent and close your Facebook page immediately!  Your postings on MySpace […]

Cyberspace

On January 13, 2010, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Leslye's Quotes and Notes, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

You have to think carefully before you get involved with someone in cyberspace.  You should keep your online life separate from your personal life.  You don’t want your relationship scrutinized by people on Twitter and Facebook! You should never give anyone your passwords to any account you have—whether it is an email account, Facebook account […]