A Kiss

While the quest for a female Viagra continues, the secret switch that turns on desire is a kiss!  Kissing and cocaine both spark the same feel-good brain chemical, dopamine.  Male saliva contains testosterone, and a lingering kiss is a reliable delivery system. Smooching floods the bloodstream with dopamine, which stimulates the same part of the brain […]

Digital Flirting

Technology has created new rules for romance—which may lead to the path of infidelity.  Digital flirting is easy to do and easier to get caught!  Online flirtations and provocative photos are becoming the norm among some adults. The social networks—Facebook, Twitter and Skype video chats make it easy to flirt with strangers and engage in sexual fantasy without (technically) breaking […]

Preparing for Divorce

When you are preparing for divorce it is very important that you have a clear picture of where you and your spouse stand financially.  The most important goal of the divorce process is to make an equitable distribution of all marital assets and debts.  In order for you to make sure that you get your […]

Online Privacy

Unfortunately, there is no such thing as online privacy.  The drive to make money from your personal information is greater than online advertising. Many companies sell every bit of personal information they have about you in exchange for pennies. There is a huge marketplace for personal information.  The biggest threat to privacy is the packaging and sale […]

Never Show Weakness

If your husband is the one who wants the divorce, you should NEVER beg or plead to get him to return. Begging or pleading will show weakness and cause you to feel humiliated when he lets you know he’s  not interested. When your marriage is in crisis, don’t show him that you’re panicking. Don’t show desperation. You’re giving away […]

Revenge Surgery

Recently divorced women are bouncing back from divorce with plastic surgery—”revenge surgery.”  Needing to feel better about themselves from the devastation of a failed marriage and many times a bitter divorce battle,  they have plastic surgery which can erase years and build self-esteem. After a divorce you feel unattractive and unloved.  Plastic surgery gives you the confidence […]

Divorce and Stress

One of the most stressful times of your life is when you are going through a divorce.  Exercise is key to helping you cope with stress.  Stress can make you sick, so you must do everything you can to minimize it. Even an hourly walk every day can be helpful. America is an “overstressed nation” according to a […]

Attributes of Hair Color

When women and men were asked what attributes they ascribe to hair colors, the results were interesting. These are the top responses for each: Blonde—beautiful, sexy, confident, bitchy, classy Red—sexy, beautiful, exotic, aggressive, confident Brown—beautiful, intelligent, sexy, trustworthy, classy Black—beautiful, sexy, exotic, classy, intelligent White/Gray—intelligent, classy, trustworthy, confident