A Kiss

While the quest for a female Viagra continues, the secret switch that turns on desire is a kiss!  Kissing and cocaine both spark the same feel-good brain chemical, dopamine.  Male saliva contains testosterone, and a lingering kiss is a reliable delivery system. Smooching floods the bloodstream with dopamine, which stimulates the same part of the brain […]

Digital Flirting

Technology has created new rules for romance—which may lead to the path of infidelity.  Digital flirting is easy to do and easier to get caught!  Online flirtations and provocative photos are becoming the norm among some adults. The social networks—Facebook, Twitter and Skype video chats make it easy to flirt with strangers and engage in sexual fantasy without (technically) breaking […]

Men You Shouldn’t Date

These are the guys you should forget about: —Rebound Guy: He’s always comparing you with his ex. Avoid him until he’s healed; —Disappearing Guy: If he always has excuses like “work’s really busy”—there is usually something else going on. The giveaway is erratic contact; —Slick Guy: If his life looks like a magazine spread (sports […]

Infidelity Gay Twist

Half the  men would forgive their female partner’s infidelity if it was with another woman, according to a new study on cheating.  Women, however, were less likely to forgive and forget if their boyfriend or husband had been with another man.  The study concluded the participants’ reactions based on basic jealousy instincts. The study was […]

Sex vs. Thin

On February 27, 2011, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

In a recent diet survey by Fitness Magazine, a shocking 51 percent of women say they would skip sex for a year if it meant they’d be skinny.  Women have gone to such extremes to have a model body that 43 percent say they skip meals regularly, while 39 percent have gone on a crash diet, […]

Fairy Tale for Women of the 21st Century

Once upon a time, in a land far away, a beautiful, independent, self-assured princess happened upon a frog as she sat contemplating ecological issues on the shores of an unpolluted pond in a verdant meadow near her castle.  The frog hopped into the princess’  lap and said, “Elegant Lady, I was once a handsome prince, […]

Same Old Cheaters

On February 16, 2011, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

Americans forty-five and older are more open to having sex outside their marriage than they were ten years ago.  According to AARP, “they’re more liberal in their attitudes, yet they’re having sex less often.  The only thing that’s changed in a negative direction is financial worries.”

Naughty 40’s

On January 23, 2011, in Blog, Divorce Advice, Leslye's Quotes and Notes, Prepare for Divorce, Sex, by leslye

A recent poll has found that women in their 40’s are much more likely to go all the way on a first date than women in their 20’s.