Attributes of Hair Color

When women and men were asked what attributes they ascribe to hair colors, the results were interesting. These are the top responses for each: Blonde—beautiful, sexy, confident, bitchy, classy Red—sexy, beautiful, exotic, aggressive, confident Brown—beautiful, intelligent, sexy, trustworthy, classy Black—beautiful, sexy, exotic, classy, intelligent White/Gray—intelligent, classy, trustworthy, confident

Infidelity Gay Twist

Half the  men would forgive their female partner’s infidelity if it was with another woman, according to a new study on cheating.  Women, however, were less likely to forgive and forget if their boyfriend or husband had been with another man.  The study concluded the participants’ reactions based on basic jealousy instincts. The study was […]

A Sad Time In Our Lives

All the Borders bookstores are closing in New York City—maybe everywhere.  Huge bookstores full of wonderful books.  It is a very sad time in our lives.  If bookstores close, then publishers will close, and someday we won’t have books as we know them today! There’s nothing like reading a real book—not one on a Kindle!

Lying or Self-Deception

People very often say things that aren’t true. It’s not exactly lying but more like self-deception.  A good example is, “I am a private person—I would never reveal such and such because I’m a private person.” Anyone who says that is probably not a private person. Truly private people do not have to declare it.  […]

Getting Rid of the Bling

One of the first things some women want to do when they have gone through a terrible divorce is get rid of everything their ex-husband had given them—particularly jewelry.  Elin Nordegren reportedly got rid of any signs of her ex-husband, serial cheater Tiger Woods, including the jewelry he gave her. I would suggest that you […]

Web Self-Defense

The Internet is the world’s bazaar, delivering virtually anything you want—you never need to leave home!  But the Web is full of crooks who are happy to take your money if you give them the chance. Be suspicious of  “free trials.”  When you give your credit card or debit card number to cover shipping and handling […]

Protect Yourself Against Fraud

Credit card companies say that simple defensive measures can protect you from fraud.  Some are:  shredding new credit card offers and old credit card statements. Not leaving your payment envelope stuck on the mailbox. Other things you should do: —Make sure your credit card company has your phone number so if a suspicious charge appears […]

Ugly Divorce vs. Good Divorce

On February 28, 2011, in Blog, Divorce, Divorce Advice, Divorce Information, Prepare for Divorce, by leslye

“Why Divorces Get Ugly and How to Have a Good One” — Some advice if you are considering divorce: If you’re unhappy, go to your spouse and tell them what’s wrong. Be completely honest. Communicate to your spouse and figure out if the two of you want to make an effort to save the marriage or not. […]