Men You Shouldn’t Date

These are the guys you should forget about: —Rebound Guy: He’s always comparing you with his ex. Avoid him until he’s healed; —Disappearing Guy: If he always has excuses like “work’s really busy”—there is usually something else going on. The giveaway is erratic contact; —Slick Guy: If his life looks like a magazine spread (sports […]

Marriage is a Business

You should treat your marriage like a business—a financial partnership.  Couples who support each other through open communication seem to have a stronger relationship, especially when it comes to their money.  Both of you should be part of any financial decisions—and being part of the decision-making will strengthen your marriage. Communication, mutual respect and monetary […]

A Woman’s Age

Two decades ago women believed they looked best at 34.  However, men back then put that number at 31.  On the other hand, men thought they looked best at 33, but women put the number at 35. A recent survey concluded that today women are the most beautiful at 30, according to members of both sexes, and […]

Attributes of Hair Color

When women and men were asked what attributes they ascribe to hair colors, the results were interesting. These are the top responses for each: Blonde—beautiful, sexy, confident, bitchy, classy Red—sexy, beautiful, exotic, aggressive, confident Brown—beautiful, intelligent, sexy, trustworthy, classy Black—beautiful, sexy, exotic, classy, intelligent White/Gray—intelligent, classy, trustworthy, confident

Infidelity Gay Twist

Half the  men would forgive their female partner’s infidelity if it was with another woman, according to a new study on cheating.  Women, however, were less likely to forgive and forget if their boyfriend or husband had been with another man.  The study concluded the participants’ reactions based on basic jealousy instincts. The study was […]

Lying or Self-Deception

People very often say things that aren’t true. It’s not exactly lying but more like self-deception.  A good example is, “I am a private person—I would never reveal such and such because I’m a private person.” Anyone who says that is probably not a private person. Truly private people do not have to declare it.  […]

Protect Yourself Against Fraud

Credit card companies say that simple defensive measures can protect you from fraud.  Some are:  shredding new credit card offers and old credit card statements. Not leaving your payment envelope stuck on the mailbox. Other things you should do: —Make sure your credit card company has your phone number so if a suspicious charge appears […]

Fairy Tale for Women of the 21st Century

Once upon a time, in a land far away, a beautiful, independent, self-assured princess happened upon a frog as she sat contemplating ecological issues on the shores of an unpolluted pond in a verdant meadow near her castle.  The frog hopped into the princess’  lap and said, “Elegant Lady, I was once a handsome prince, […]